5 Sexual Fantasies to Embrace This Valentine’s Day

Some may feel a little bashful in communicating

Let us begin by saying that everyone has sexual fantasies.

Some may feel a little bashful in communicating their fantasies to their partners, but every fantasy is normal. It’s time we start shifting our thought process when it comes to communicating our sexual fantasies and be more open about normalizing the conversation. The less we beat ourselves up about our fears the happier we are all going to be.

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and romance, so let’s make it about just that! If you’re ready to toss the traditional celebration of dinner, flowers, and a movie out the window, we have a few ideas to get you started.

#1 Add Sex Toys to the Mix

Certainly, as a sex toy company, we absolutely advocate for the pleasure and adventure sex toys can bring into a relationship and solo play. While it may or may not be considered a fantasy to use sex toys, they offer an added element to your Valentine’s Day celebration. If traditional sex hasn’t always brought you to orgasm, toys are designed to achieve just this. Sex toys are a great way to add some variety to your sexual routine and can be used just about anywhere.

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#2 Roleplay

If you struggle with letting your inner sex kitten loose, roleplaying could be your solution! Roleplaying in a relationship is one of the top sexual fantasies among men and women. Between dressing up as a French maid, librarian, or nurse, the possibilities are endless. Talk to your partner about what persona turns them on and then act it out to the fullest!

#3 Do IT in A Public Place

What better way to add some thrill to your Valentine’s Day than the rush you get of potentially getting caught in the act? If you’re up for the challenge sneak into a public bathroom at a club, street alley, or do it in the car on your way back from dinner. Sex in public has its risks though when it comes to your criminal record and wellbeing of the passerby, so do be cautious.

#4 Play a Sex Game

Games are a great way to inspire and engage lovers to try something they have never done before. A variety of different sex games exist, but we recommend the We’ve Never…But We Will Card Game. This game combines one of our favorites, Never Have I Ever, into its own sexually inspired game for adventurous couples.

#5 Dominating

According to one study, 65 percent of women crave to be dominated. The hit book, 50 Shades of Grey helped normalize the conversation around being dominated more than ever. With millions of copies sold, these fantasies enlightened women all around the world. Now dominating doesn’t have to go as far as being tied up and having a safe word if you don’t want it to be. It can be as simple as someone holding you down while they kiss you to full-blown extreme BDSM. Dominating can include fun toys such as bondage, handcuffs, and floggers, to get started.

We hope these five ideas inspire you to mix up your Valentine’s Day and celebrate the romance in your life the way it should be celebrated… through orgasm.